Knowing our way to yes.

What opportunity do we have here to truly benefit ourselves? What would it take for us to activate our consciousness at a level that would make the difficult things in our lives easy for us to do? Where is that activation available or where is that level of consciousness able to be embraced by ourselves so that we own that as ourselves? Lets just wait for that answer to come to us. There is so much that your body wants to communicate and when your moving quickly, its activating lots of different areas of your consciousness and so your not able to actually be in communication with much of it. So it you ask a question at a time that you are being inundated with input otherwise, then if the answer is coming in a subtle way it sometimes finds it impossible to move through whatever else that is going on that you haven't allowed to be resolved in your life yet. So the question is: where is ease, joy and abundance available to us? Can we use our body as a tuning fork? I am going to quit looking and just let my body answer that question, because my body already knows where ease is. 

The first answer that we have to look for is: is it even possible to significantly change who we are here?

The only way that we can answer that with any success is to know that answer in this moment. Not intellectually, but as our experience. Is it possible for me to be free here? 

An incredible No! A continuous no. It’s like a shouted No, no, no! No, no, ahh, so dive into that no. The fact that your not improving, is that there is a big fat no, continuously, rejecting all improvement for yourself. 

No, no, hmm, notice how your body instantly frees yourself when you know that no is that answer to the question of your own improvement. No, you’re not allowed. No, it is not possible, no, its not what you choose, no, no, no, no and the more that you know that your answer to your self improvement is no, the closer you get to a yes.

Jeff: ha, ha, ha.

No, no, no, no, knowing your truth to be a negative result, well, at least you know where you are starting from! OK, thats where we are starting from. No to self having what self desires. No to my personal desires being realized. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, know that simply allowing your knowing will give you the result that you wish, but in order for you to know, you have to know that which you don’t want to know: you have to know that the solution to your pain, unconsciousness, your trauma and your limitations here is in that insufferable, physical and emotional pain that is held in your body. 

Oh, no, not that, not the hard way to divinity! Why does it have to be so hard? Why can’t you just leave the horribleness of that which you are embodied as, behind you on your way up to stairway to heaven? 

Because you are here as that. You can’t leave that behind you, until you are done here. So, what is the process of the physical body ascending the stairway to heaven? Thats really your question. Does anybody know here? God hope so, god willingly, I hope so, but I’m not going to go look for them and alter my life in such a degree that I am handling my normal life even less effectively than I am now. Iv’e got to get better at handling my mortal life here. If I don’t get better, I am just going to be stressed all of the time because I’m not doing the things that I really want to do: I am not enjoying my children growing up, I’m not being successful in my business, I’m not providing the financial means for my future so that there is no question that I am going to be able to take care of the unexpected things that happen in life.

Know all of this pain and discomfort in your body, all of your trials and tribulations, are a big fat NO, to your being here wondrously. No, no, no, your body is shouting at you No! No, no, thats not out experience here. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. It’s really a tremendous realization that the more we say no and realize that thats our truth: the freer we get in the body. No, no, no and the more that the pain leaves. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, thats not the way for you, thats not the way for you, thats not the way for you. Oh, come on: I like my way. Thats not the way for you!

Your way, is not the way for you. If it were: you would be here divinely and your not, your not. So your way is not working, no to your way of life continuing from here on if improvement is what you want. No, no, no, no, no to any of those things that don;t directly benefit you the way that you want. No to those things that do not deliver the life that you want to live here. No, no, just stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it, no, no, no to your normal operating mode in your life: it’s not working for you, it’s not working, it’s not working, no, no, no, no, no, no. 

You know what? You don’t have to take it personally, you don’t have to own it, all you have to do is say No to what doesn’t work in delivering the purpose that you desire. Can’t you see that thats a positive thing for you to do to say no to that which does not serve you? No to that which does not deliver to you what you have chosen to receive? Hmm?

Jeff: um-hmm, Cal was saying: this, not this.

No, no, no, no, no, no, is there anyone in life that will say yes for you? No, no, no, no. Well, get some new friends then. No, no, no, no, no. Then get some new business deals then. No, no, ahh, ahh, ahh, ahh, no, no: THE CORE NO: the no that defines my existence here: no to that which is wished for, no to that which is wished for for self. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, Mmnn… Ahh, the realization that your entire experience of life has virtually been one continuous no, oh my God, ahh, how do you bear that? Ahh, ahh, life is one big no to you. Wouldn’t it be ironic if it you were the one who realized his experience of life as being A UNIVERSAL YES for you? From no, to yes, wouldn’t that be funny? Wouldn’t that be cute? Wouldn’t that be ironic? Wouldn’t that be ironic Jeff, if the most unlikely to be that which you are going to be, was you and that you were that triumphantly realized as he who knows and is wise, honored and respected and lionized by all who know you? Hmm, Hmm, Hmm, wouldn’t that be an odd experience to have? Wouldn’t that be an odd experience to have? Wouldn’t that be an odd experience to have the respect of the world as being an honest, honorable, inspirational and wonderfully loving man?

The one who truly makes everyones day when the come in touch with you in any way? Wouldn’t that be ironic, if that were a possibility for you and you embraced it? Wouldn’t that be a shocker? Wouldn’t that just be odd? Wouldn’t that be odd? Wouldn’t that be odd? Hmm, Hmm, Hmm, Mmm, Mmm, Mmm, Mmm. Wouldn’t it be odd if you were transcendently wise? Mmm, I mean: just where you always did and said that which just delighted, inspired and awakened to at least a profound laughter, those who you interact with. Oh wow, wow oh, wow, Ouch, oh is there a lot of resistance to that being my reality. Wow, wow, boy is there… Boy, how is it possible to surmount the amount of resistance to us being universally loved? Boy there is sure a lot that we’re connected with Jeff that doesn’t want us to be universally loved. Wow, hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm.

How is it possible to move through our life from this moment on in such a way that we behave ourselves in a manner that we are worthy of universal love? Mmm, how is it possibly for us to behave tomorrow in a manner that is universally loving and thus worthy of universal love in return? Hmm, Mmm.

Jeff: It’s almost like taking a vacation to a place where we can believe in those good things about ourselves and then bring that back here and live it, but it is like the resistance here is really made here, built here and created here, but it is not who I am.

No, not at all.

Jeff: and the universe doesn’t support it. 

Yes, it does.

Jeff: the universe always say yes.

Yes, it does.

Jeff: and so if you truly desire in your heart to be something, the universe always says yes, it never says no.

I don’t know, it doesn’t look like that is the way that life is demonstrated here for people.

Jeff: Well sure, what you believe in though it says yes and if you believe in No it says No. 

I don’t know, I don’t know, lets see. Lets see, what does it take to change your mind about your life? I don’t know that I have ever seen anyone do it other than George Forman. Have you ever seen anyone else change like George Forman?

Jeff: tell me about George Forman. 

George Forman was the most mean, hateful, person that you might ever come across, worse than Mike Tyson. George was just like Mike and now George is one of the happiest, most loving, delightful people on earth and so I have got one example, I don’t know anyone else who has shifted like that. But dog gone it, George did, George did good man and he has maintained it ever since and so God bless us to be bless like George man, with that which makes a qualitative shift in our experience of our own reality here. One that blesses and inspires everyone else’s. That guy cannot have a bad thought for somebody. 

So, whenever you find those places within your body and you go: oh thats painful, oh thats horrible, oh thats traumatic, oh thats unconscious, how do I do it? Just feel what it is saying to you: Its just giving you a Big Fat No, so just dive in there and chant with it. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Jeff: thats been on my mind for the last several days now, I knew that you would bring this up. The opposite is always with the thing that your confronting and so when you are saying no, yes is its constant companion.

Of course, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, well done.

Jeff: you dive into the no and keep on chanting no and your uncovering yes like you digging up the truth, digging up the treasure.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, know your way to yes and that is no, no.

Jeff: ha, ha, its, true, so true.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, mains there a lot for me to say no too. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Feel it in your own body.

Jeff, ha, ha, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Jeff, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

No your way to yes. That is the secret of the secret that is still secret. 

Jeff, ha, ha.

Know your way to yes. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Jeff: it’s a plain as the nose on your face. 

Yea, a lot of the no’s have to end up right there. No, no, no, now you can just relax and feel the constant no now that has taken up residence in your body. Just relax. 

To all of those things that you know that you can’t do? Agree with your self: no, no, no, can’t do it, don’t want to do it. Isn’t that a relief? Your not bullshitting yourself any more: I’m not going to do that, nope, nope, nope, can’t and wont. No, no, no, no, no.

Jeff: agree with thine adversary while thou are in the way, lest he esteem you to be his enemy.

Yes a scriptural quote. 

Jeff: within the frequency of no most of our lives. We were told no as a child most of the time. 

You have been told no, by most everything that you have ever experienced. 

Jeff: which is false to the nature of heaven.

Who knows? Who knows, who knows what it is.

Jeff: you wouldn’t have freedom if the universe constantly told you no.

Why would the universe constantly tell you no, maybe that is the question to ask?

Jeff: I am just saying the universe has to say yes.

I don’t think that it does, cause it just said no over and over again.

Jeff: that was out own creation. 

Well, the universe agreed with it, so it said yes to your creation of no, yes to agreeing that life is a no for us. So it always says yes, but what that means is the universe does nothing for us then, except agree with us So, do we need to focus on the universe as a solution if the universe is always going to agree with us? Do we have to figure out how to get the universe to bless us when the universe will always do that which we agree should be done to us? 

Jeff, we should focus on ourselves.

OK, lets do that then, because that’s the only logical thing. Why say no in such an emphatic manner that all the whole universe agrees with us? 

Jeff: because we are brainwashed with it. 

I don’t know if we were of not.

Jeff: of course we were. 

Well, lets just look and see what releases it instead of intellectualizing about it, lets find where the level of knowing is such that the truth of it handles itself, how about that?

Jeff: when you were chanting no, I became more and more uncomfortable with that and I could feel my spirit crying out for yes, in fact every no that you would say, I turned it into yes.

You should have chanted yes when you felt compelled to. 

Jeff, I should have.

But, you couldn’t say yes to yes, you were saying yes to no.

Jeff: every time I was saying no, I was really saying yes, because the spirit of me was saying my true nature is yes and the word yes, hearing the word yes is more agreeable to my spirit than anything else.

So if the universe gives us a yes, where do we choose our no?

Jeff: from our conditioning. 

I don’t know.

Jeff: or from doubt.

I don’t know. Thats certainly where we experience it, but is that where we choose it?  

Jeff: well yes.

Where is the control point of what creates out reality? Because were certainly not able to direct our reality here exactly the way that we want to receive it. Do you?

Jeff: I think you said it correctly when you said let the frequency of no resonate in side of you, now conversely, let the frequency of yes resonate within yourself. The vibration of yes, thats where the freedom is going to happen to change this mighty concept of know that is so well established.

But, we’ve always got a yes from the outside, so we have to figure out where the no is coming from on the inside. 

Jeff: you said earlier that it comes from everything that we have experienced in this life.

No, I am saying that everything that we have experienced in life has agreed with our no. That is the concise description of what has been communicated. Life is in agreement, with our no for ourselves.

Jeff: life is in agreement, with anything that we wish for ourselves.

Not necessarily, because I wish for things much better than what I experience, so where is the choice point? Where is the controlling choice point that creates the reality? 

Jeff: our belief, our belief.

No its not.

Jeff: your mind can think something and your heart can think differently.

So is the choice point in your heart?

Jeff: there is a spot in our will, when the will is weak…

Lets just look for it and see what comes up, lets just assume that we are going to know what the truth is of what we want to know here and the truth of what we want to know here is: where is the No that is destroying and disabling our lives? Where is that no? 

Jeff: it just has the advantage of being more established that the word yes. We need more vibration of yes, thats what I am feeling

Lets just look at it, where is the no? Where is it? Where is it? Because if you fully embrace it, you can make it a yes, so where is it? Where can you embrace that no with your knowing that yes is now what you want?

Jeff: well for anybody with any kind of hope, like as a little child when you want something and you are told no, you suffer a disappointment and that impacts on you psyche and if you are told yes then the jubilant feeling of having that small victory and having what you want can be euphoric and so you just have to paint it that way that you want.

I am just trying to figure out how things actually work and exist, not to find a way to hope that I can work through them. Because if I know simply “what is” then it will be obvious and instantaneous.

Jeff: I have been thinking lately that the mind has been schooled on earth, but the heart is schooled in heaven. The heart is more divine and the mind is more base, the conditioning part, the false personality, the ego, the things of humanity. 

I understand that you are talking about it, where are you feeling it in your body? Talk about your experience of it in the body in this moment, describe that.

Jeff: it feels like a lost child, like theres confusion, theres.

Well done, in addressing it directly instead of conceptually. 

Jeff: you feel lost because Ever time that you have been told no, there has been a..

You went back to concepts, describe what your feeling right now.

Jeff: a no feels…

What are you feeling right now in this moment? 

Jeff: if I think of the word no, I feel a lot of things. I feel lonely, I feel empty, I feel disconnected.

But what are you feeling in this moment?

Jeff: I so feel like I want to let my concept of no pass away.

Mmm, nicely said, feel it pass away. 

Jeff: yes.

Feel it pass away, don’t talk about it, feel it pass away.

Jeff: thats so nice, I just had a visualization of wearing a scarf and untying it and the scarf blowing away in the wind.

I’ve got you, but there is a lot of it here, feel it pass away, all of it.

Jeff: now my shirt goes, my pants, all of my clothing, I am just standing there. Its just me and I deserve a yes. All the covering is gone and the personna…

Your talking about it again, just feel, feel, feel it, just feel it. Feel the way of freedom being opened from within. Don’t feel the need to talk about the concept of how that might happen for you. Just feel it occur in this moment: the opening of the way that is within you to experiencing the perfection of self in this moment. Allow that opening to continuously expand within you. Jeff, I know thats its not fair, but I will know that you’ve chosen yes, when I see a physical transformation for you and you can look for the same for me. What is the possibility for instantaneous physical transformation by the way?

Jeff: lypo suction.

No, instantaneous is right now. Yes that, give into that, give into that right now. instantaneous transformation, transmutation, perfection of the body. Don’t hold onto anything that is in resistance to that. Anything that feels solid about that: just let it go and allow yourself to keep moving beyond that. Beyond anything that is solid and significant about reality here, just move beyond all of that. 

In short: embrace that density of that no, until it becomes a yes. Know that commands are manifestations here. Where is the no that commands our beingness to be as it is and not progress to that which it could be. Where is the no within us that defines our reality? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, mine fees right in my throat. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, hmm, hmm, Mmm. What turns that no into a yes? A yes that the entire universe will agree with? A yes to the very best that this universe has to offer being that which you are granted. Where is “that” yes realized for you? The no of suppression, becoming the yes of eternal enlightenment? 

Dad, I felt the no right where you said, in my throat and the yes is right up there about my third eye.

Allow your throat to know that which your third eye knows. Your third eye knows that you are ultimately free no matter what this realities experience is for you and so when you experience yourself as that, then this reality itself becomes easy for you, becomes a yes for you.